Love thy self

Respect yourself, get connected to your inner sanctum which is your peace within. Living a more mindful, healthy, and conscious life. There are those who are so eager for love and understanding, but of course we all want to be loved, I'm referring to the ones still wondering why they are still single.

Perhaps you need to take care of your mind, body,soul and hygiene.
Yes, hygiene. At times that also can contribute to why some are alone. They may be beautiful or handsome well dressed intelligent and can hold a conversation, but...smell really bad. phew!! Stop talking or matter of fact take a shower and bring the toothpaste with you.

Smelling like they have not taken a shower or changed the underwear or brushed their teeth in days!! That's a turn off. To have so much quality but stink,what a waste.

Then there are the ones who smoke too much, smelling like an ashstray. Come on,"The one you been looking for" wants to share their life with you, not your medical bills due to something you could of get help for or avoided. Stop the alchol abuse as well. I know people might say "easier said then done", but don't you think your worth it? if you have kids aren't they worth the effort to stop?

Don't be selfish. Think. How is smoking and drinking making you a better person? In my opinion a little alchol in moderation may be ok, but when you need it to function in order to get through the day, well that's when you need to get help,who are you fooling. Smoking is not part of a healthy choice, it decreases your life, not increase it and it also stinks. If you also need that to function there is also help for that as well. You can empower yourself in so many ways. We are not perfect, but one can try to live a healthy non violent life and be happy and smell really good too. :)