Could it be you and not them?

Can it really be you and not them? Its just my opinion but, perhaps your the one with the issue.

 If you are still wondering why you are still single (not by choice) or can't seem to find "the one", then maby you should take a look at yourself, inside and out.

Why are you attracting the kind of people that think less of you? I'm speaking of men/women. Why do some feel treating the man or woman like their below their level is ok?

Who do you think you are. I know, someone who obvious went through emotionally and/or physical pain in their lives hurt.

Which is unfortunate, but do you think it is fair to take out your anger towards the innocent?

Break the cycle. Why turn out to behave exactly like the person or people that hurt you! Why would you give them that much credit. Everyone deserves to be loved ( except of course the ones who deliberately set out to destroy innocent lives and have no remorse).

Stop the hurt. Stop hurting. Stop feeling frustrated and tormented. Get help in order to live a happy full filing life.
Here is an article I found interesting:

When it Comes to Men, Some Women Have It...and You Can Too!

by Bob Grant, P.L.C. author of “The Woman Men Adore”

Every day in my counseling office, I hear women say some variation of this:

“In the last few years, I have had relationships with men who, at first, seemed perfect for me.  They were attentive, attractive and fun to be around.  Then suddenly, as if they knew they had reeled me in, they stopped trying.  They stopped calling as much, stopped taking me out and basically stopped the romantic dance that couples do when they are falling in love.  Was it me?  After all, I think I’m attractive, have a good personality and I work out to keep my body in nice shape.  So why then, do I always end up with the men who become “couch potatoes” at my house?  The men who would rather bring a six pack over and watch football all day and then expect me to fix dinner?  Do I suddenly turn into just a “buddy” to them, the girl next door?

I see other women who, frankly, are not as attractive as I am or as thin as I am, who seem to get the “hot” men.  I don’t necessarily mean gorgeous men, but the men who take them to nice restaurants, bring them flowers, take them dancing and, basically, “court” them.  What secrets do they know that I don’t, because they certainly aren’t sharing them?”

Most women think a wonderful relationship is simply about finding the right man. The truth is that those women who have wonderful relationships didn’t necessarily know where to find good men, instead they attracted them. Would you like to learn how to attract and keep a wonderful man? The best way to find out probably isn’t by talking to a woman; instead, a man would be able to give you the secrets to a man’s heart.

I’d like to share with you the secrets that men find irresistible and powerless to resist. The dirty little secret is that having a perfect body isn’t nearly as important as you have been led to believe.
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Love thy self

Respect yourself, get connected to your inner sanctum which is your peace within. Living a more mindful, healthy, and conscious life. There are those who are so eager for love and understanding, but of course we all want to be loved, I'm referring to the ones still wondering why they are still single.

Perhaps you need to take care of your mind, body,soul and hygiene.
Yes, hygiene. At times that also can contribute to why some are alone. They may be beautiful or handsome well dressed intelligent and can hold a conversation, but...smell really bad. phew!! Stop talking or matter of fact take a shower and bring the toothpaste with you.

Smelling like they have not taken a shower or changed the underwear or brushed their teeth in days!! That's a turn off. To have so much quality but stink,what a waste.

Then there are the ones who smoke too much, smelling like an ashstray. Come on,"The one you been looking for" wants to share their life with you, not your medical bills due to something you could of get help for or avoided. Stop the alchol abuse as well. I know people might say "easier said then done", but don't you think your worth it? if you have kids aren't they worth the effort to stop?

Don't be selfish. Think. How is smoking and drinking making you a better person? In my opinion a little alchol in moderation may be ok, but when you need it to function in order to get through the day, well that's when you need to get help,who are you fooling. Smoking is not part of a healthy choice, it decreases your life, not increase it and it also stinks. If you also need that to function there is also help for that as well. You can empower yourself in so many ways. We are not perfect, but one can try to live a healthy non violent life and be happy and smell really good too. :)

Obessed love

Obsessed love is ruining the world. some people can't function because the phone won't stop ringing, too much flowers, letters, request on the radio...etc. Not saying some of those items are bad to get..but when its too much..its too much.

"There are more fishes in the sea" as the saying goes. Relax, there are hundreds of men and women in the world that you may be comfortable with.

In some relationships there are those who actually say what they feel and mean it, the sweet loving kind, that their face radiance with the love they have for you without being overbearing. Just a look, you know their heart is bursting for you, Ok, I don't want to sound sappy, but its true.

Some will proclaim their love for you and show affection, but not too much. Give some  space! I'm talking about the ones who say it just enough and show it that its not overwhelming, but you just know how they feel. :)

“Why Do Some Women Always Date Losers?”

Do you know of someone who has a pattern of always dating losers, bad boys, who always break their heart and leave them crying? For those women, oftentimes they need help in identifying the signs of such unreliable men.

Let’s define a loser as a man who is totally into himself and has little empathy for a woman’s needs. He is a man who has a pattern of sweet talking women in an attempt to sweep them off their feet and into the nearest bed. He will wine you and dine you and tell you how beautiful you are and how lucky he is to have met you. These men are very good at what they do because they’ve had a lot of practice!

These men are wonderful in the beginning of a relationship; however, in time they most always become less attached and more distant to their partner. Some never call back, others break dates and some even “forget” their wallet and their date ends up paying for the meal.
Have you ever met or dated a man such as this? Perhaps he never said he loved you, and whenever you spoke about commitment, he would change the subject.

The truth is that no woman ever wakes up in the morning and says to herself, “Today I need to find a man who will hurt me.” Rather what most often happens is that many women (and men) tend to confuse intensity with reliability. They meet someone who makes them FEEL wonderful or excited and they assume that he is a good man. The problem isn’t that their feelings are wrong. What gets them into trouble is that their intense feelings often cause them to ignore bad or inconsistent behavior that they would clearly see if they were not so emotionally involved.

What if there was a way to effortlessly attract men that were both exciting as well as dependable? Not simply a technique, but a manual that showed how successful women captivate men in such a way that they never get mistreated.
What if information was available to transform you into the woman that men adore? Thankfully such information is available and it’s just one click away. “The Woman Men Adore…and Never Want to Leave,” shows every woman the secrets to attract and keep the man of her dreams.  Click here to see for yourself! 

Can we talk about...

Love.
In love with you.
Falling for you.
You have my heart.

Those words can mean so much to someone but to someone else its just bullsh!!. I believe if you truly mean it, show and prove it (to the right person of course) if not, then stop wasting time, be true to your self and to the one your saying it too.

Those words are so powerful. Some men or women at times say it just so they gain something out of it. Or just so the girlfriend or wife can stop bother the man while watching a game, he might say: "you know I love you right? Let me just watch the game and then after I can show you how much" kisses! :)

Whatever they want & so much more !!